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Our Family
Justin (16), Keturah (13), Benaiah (19), Abishai (6), Melinda, and Jared

Friday, October 2, 2020

Year 5, October 2nd, 2020: Special Concert Edition: MWS, SCC, & Mac Powell

 Ah, that feels better! I scratched the concert itch with 5 other people in my van alone and many, many others in the crowd! From my Indiana Michael W. Smith fan base to one of my best friends who I should have invited to go with me but thought she was too busy and trying to stay healthy because she works in an assisted living facility. We talked a bit and all is forgiven, lol. She's my front row buddy if we have ever have that concert! 

It was great seeing the guys up there doing their thing again. I know it makes their hearts happy just as much as it makes our hearts happy to see them. It felt a bit short, but it was also so cold! 50 degrees! And you had Mac Powell in a parka, Jim Daneker with no hat, Steven Curtis Chapman) SCC, toughing it out and Michael W. Smith with a backwards ball cap on with his current branding on it. They sang a few hits, and then actually asked for some requests from the audience. And they finished with some worship songs. It was quite interesting trying to handle my phone and DSLR camera while trying to keep warm by holding a sleeping bag around me. I didn't want to sit down. From standing in line for food to standing in line to use a bathroom and still missing a couple of songs. And my heart was racing because I was responsible for getting 5 other adults to and from the out door drive in movie theater. I had never done that before, so that was all new and I was the one driving! But it's located in the middle of nowhere and we were one of the first ones there as planned. Everybody seem to be having some decent conversations. But I could feel my ADD type brain going into chaos and nervous energy mode rearranging stuff and playing with my keys or my phone to try to center myself. 

It was basically an outdoor concert with a twist because of the cars. It was kind of nice being able to leave most things in the car and pull them out one by one if I needed to. We had a great parking spot until someone pulled into the row in front of us and lifted their tailgate/hatch. Sigh. Unfortunately, it was a family I knew. So, I didn't say anything. BUT, I got some great footage on both my phone camera (maxing out my photo album again) and then even better footage on my DSLR that I could sneak in. But you try to hold a sleeping bag around you as tight as you can, feeling the cold air coming up through the holes for you legs, and get great photos. But all my Smitty fan friends that were there got some great shots as well. 

It was just weird and different but not upsetting.  I went in with lower expectations, too. It was just good to be out doing something somewhat normal. And for some of us, going to concerts is just part of our year long rituals. Something to mark the passage of time. Speaking of passing time, it's time for bed. I finally felt sleeping. It's 2:30 am. Time to sleep.

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Ok, let's see what details I can remember. Everyone arrived at my house on time. We had six people total. We didn't get a group picture, but that's ok. It was Diane VanOsdol, Laura Harrigan with a friend, and Kelli Woodward with her son Nick, as well as I. Some of them had been to this drive in theater before for another concert, so they were able to direct me. It was an easy drive down I-74, and just a couple of short turns off the highway. It's a small drive in, and we were one of the first people to arrive. We sat in line for about 35 minutes thinking we would be there for nearly an hour, but they let people drive in early. Kind of weird to be "standing in line" by driving a car though! The time passed pretty quickly, too. I was nervous about driving, but everybody was very friendly about it. I got us lined up in the first row of the general admission area. I nosed in, instead of backed in, which was the right move. Four of us ended up sitting in the van for most of the concert. Two of them sat out in their chairs, and I was about half and half. Everybody we arrived, we all took a turn in the ladies' room and ordered food. Again, that was the best move because the lines only grew longer as more people came. We had to wait until it got dark for the concert to start. The food prices were pretty good! The $5 bucket of popcorn was HUGE! Definitely doable. Again, it was weird getting food like popcorn and walking back to our car instead of our seats in an arena. It was definitely fun and part of the adventure!

 On the way back to the van, I heard my friend Sheryl Morning's voice! Man, we could have talked for hours! Her coworker had insisted that she come to the concert. I felt so bad because I purposefully didn't directly ask her to come with me because I knew she was guarding her health because she works in an assisted living facility and I know that she would be working the next day. But how fun to bump into her, as well as many other folks from church. It's hard to tell how many people actually came, but it was a smaller venue so I'm sure it wasn't that much. There were some great fans down in the gold circle though. I wanted to be down there but the tickets sold out quickly. Oh, while I was standing talking to Sheryl, it started to spit rain and it got in our popcorn! Ew! Oh well. I was a nervous ball of energy all evening. I found myself rearranging stuff in the van, not knowing what to do with what, making sure others were comfortable, (although I forgot to directly ask and kind of mumbled to myself), unsure of when the concert would actually start, how cold was I going to be, etc. Oh, and about 20 minutes before the concert started, the second/last tour bus pulled up! It must have gotten stuck in traffic. I'm not sure which artist it was fun, but I had to laugh. I quickly pulled up all their Instagram accounts but no one mentioned it. I did see that Mac Powell had brought his wife with him and they had done some hiking yesterday at a park in Ohio. His wife was the one who had an abysmal on her brain last year and they almost lost her.  So it was good to hear that she was able to come and spend a couple of days away from their kids, who are still at home I think middle school age now. 

Anyway, I was in line for the bathroom when the concert started, but that's ok, I could see it while I was in line. The way they did it was that they just took turns playing one of their hits. They even took requests from the audience! I think the best part was hearing their voices and instruments playing on each other's songs. That's unity right there. When I was younger I thought that Steven Curtis Chapman and Michael W. Smith were rivals. No, they didn't fight, but in my mind, either you liked guitar (SCC) or piano (MWS). Of course I listened to SCC, too, and he played a few of the hits I love from him last night. But those three 57-63 yr old goofballs on stage are such a hoot! I wanted to come just to see these three legends interact and they didn't disappoint. SCC talked about how Mac Powell said his adoptions encouraged the Powells to adopt. And SCC's kids and MWS' kids went to the same schools. They talked about going on their first tour together, SCC and MWS together 11 years ago, and I distinctly remember that concert. It was at the Murat Theatre downtown Indy, with Sheryl, and it was after the Healing Rain album (maybe a year or two?) My mom was battling cancer and I remember singing "Healing Rain" and praying for God to heal her, or heal my heart. That would have been in 2009. It was a simple band and no fancy lights kind of tour, just like last night was. The band was pared down to the three guys, Jim Daneker, MWS programmer/keyboardist, a drummer, and a bass guitarist. Mac Powell is a guitarist, so is SCC and MWS was on keys of course. So, loads connections to these guys. And of course, when Third Day was a young band, they toured with MWS a couple of times. My mom's last concert was a Third Day/ MWS concert at the Indiana State Fair (before the accident where a storm demolished the stage, killed a few people and hurt many), which I think happened two weeks later or a couple of years later). She loved Mac Powell's unique southern drawl voice. Lots of connections.

So when the guys play the hits, I didn't come to tears, but they mean something to me. Like Place in this World, Pray for Me, SCC's I Will Be There, Thief, Agnus Dei, and so many others. Oh, and "God of Wonders"! It was so cool to be under the night sky with a huge full moon singing about the galaxy and hearing all the men's voices singing it. It's one of those songs that was in heavy rotation and popular in worship services so I kind of got tired of it for awhile. But listening to it under the stars was an unique way to revive the song for me. Oh, and Laura Harrigan doesn't quite know it (or maybe she does from my posts), but we are kindred spirits in a few ways, one being able to enjoy and sing along with all these "old" CCM songs from the '90's! She was taking pictures and videos and standing up the whole time, just like I was. It was sweet to see someone else enjoy themselves as much as I do. I felt freer to dance and such in the dark and with social distancing. It was difficult to take a lot of photos and videos and hold on to a sleeping bag to keep warm, but I managed. I should have pulled my DSLR camera out sooner because it took way better photos than my phone as you'll see below. I don't know about the videos because I haven't watched them yet. I didn't record everything, and since the stage set up didn't change and there wasn't much lighting, I tried to refrain. Even still, I managed to fill up my phone (it wasn't loading the photos to the cloud because it wasn't plugged in) so the first half of the photos were on my phone and the second half was on the DSLR. I wish I could bring the DSLR into every concert! Lol! Such better quality photos!

What an adventure though! I didn't have super high expectations. But nothing went wrong. Everything was smooth as could be. Well, except accidentally taking some sponsor children home that I now have to quickly mail back to the organization. Whoops. It was a blast of an evening. Just what the doctor ordered. Nothing super special, but a taste of normalcy. I didn't realize how much I just missed the atmosphere! After having gone to big events and concerts several times a year for several years in a row, I just got used to it being part of my routine. So I got to scratch that itch. Who knows when arena tours will start up again. Both Brickworld and the Michael W. Smith events that were supposed to happen in March have been postponed to next March 2021. I don't know about the homeschool convention, but I think it's kaput. We'll probably talk about it at our all volunteer meeting on Tuesday. While I love convention, you can't keep having something that loses money every year. Such a bummer. I'd rather have a curriculum fair so we could see product though. It could be held in a smaller venue and for cheaper. We can listen to speakers online. But we need to be hands on looking at curriculum instead of going in blindly. Man, how did I just digress to homeschooling, again? Sheesh! 

I'm so glad I "took a risk" and bought the tickets last minute. Everybody paid me something so that money easily covered the cost of the ticket, but I was willing to just do whatever money wise. Like I said, I didn't go to the merch tent because I have every t-shirt and CD and button and poster I want. I liked sitting in my cushy front seat watching and leaning back. I want to go back now to do a drive in movie with Jared and the kids. It would be a late night one and they might fall asleep, because in the summer, the sun doesn't "turn off" until 9:30pm. But it would be a cool experience. It's not that expensive. This one seemed to be run just fine. I mean the food building is older, but clean enough. Like one of the artists said, "How did we end up in a little town called Shelbyville, Indiana?" surrounded by cornfields? Probably reminded them of the days when they started out and the crowds were much smaller, lol. It did feel like an outdoor music festival and yet, we weren't all crowded together. We had our creature comforts in the van. We were cold, but otherwise comfy. We could even close the windows and doors so the music wasn't so loud. Oh, and if we wanted to, we could have tuned the radio to a certain station where they pipe in the audio from the movie or the stage. I wasn't sure if putting on the radio might wear down the battery though, so I didn't try it.

All in all, a perfect break in a long string of busyness. And now, we keep on truckin'. 

Note on the videos: I forgot that the videos on the DSLR pause when I take photos. Whoops! So enjoy it if you can. I've done my normal thing of making a playlist and listing out the songs to the best of my ability. I try not to sing too loud or sway too much, but, you know, it was cold, I get distracted. I'm not a professional. Enjoy what you can. Thanks!

MWS/SCC/Mac Powell Drive in Theater Tour Shelbyville, IN, October 1st, 2020

Hm,....seeing a concert from the comfort of your car? Weird! Drive in theater on a lot no bigger than maybe 10 acres? Interesting! I wonder what the neighbors think!

This drive in theater is much smaller than all the ones I saw online that have been having these concerts. And for once, I'm glad. It means we get to be closer to the screen! We were one of the first ones there, so we got a great seat!

Then one of the tour buses pulled up with like 20 minutes to go until concert time or something. Whoops.

We saw a double rainbow on the way over there. Shelbyville is about 30 minutes southeast of where we live and right off the highway. We had a few spits of rain, too.

Sunset, let's go! I was standing in line for the bathroom I think here. And you can still see the stage just fine.

Steven Curtis Chapman, by the way. I know a few of his songs.

Mac Powell, all the way to our left, then SCC, then Michael W. Smith all the way on the right. Mac in a parka. Steven in a couple of shirts. And I think Michael had a light jacket or sweatshirt on.

Jim Daneker to the right behind Mac, and then a drummer and a bassist. That's it. Nothing fancy. Pretty plain light set up as well. Nothing more than what we have in our church. Nice photo though with Michael's hand up.

They all stayed out for most of the set and sang on each other's songs. Just hearing their three voices blend was incredible. So much talent!



Michael W. Smith









The moon was full and bright. There's two full months this month and the 2nd full moon is called the blue moon. "Once in a blue moon" means every 2 1/2 to 3 years because that's how often it occurs! And then there's blue moon ice cream only found at Meijer in Michigan.




Gotta wear your own merch! He's had this logo for quite a while now.

Now onto the great photos from the DSLR camera! Much sharper image!














Ah yes, there you are Mr. Jim Danaker! The man behind the Man. Nice warm outfit, too. I can't imagine how cold their fingers are!




They were playing one of SCC's big rock songs from the '90's: Live Out Loud



The End

Year 5, September 28th-October 1st, 2020: Peaceful Rest? Not Quite!

 Mondays are sometimes the worst days. We were all cranky. We did get some rain after something like 40 days of none. It was gentle and it wasn't much, but just enough to make the skies cloud over. That means no one got up until 8:30am. Which means, school didn't start until after 10am. I told the kids that for every minute that they tardy for school, which is supposed to start at 9am, I'm taking off from their screen time. Because just as I figured, Justin threw a fit when 3pm, 4pm came around and he wasn't done with school. Then he came back to me and he still wasn't done. I had them watch "Loving Vincent" instead of doing history and read alouds and piano lessons with me. It's a bit out of our time period, but I found the hand drawn artsy animation astounding. And for once, it was a clean Aidan Turner film. Yikes that guy doesn't mind the gross and raunchy stuff! Anyways, Abishai could only remember that Vincent got shot. Justin talked about the artsy part of it and Keturah shrugged her shoulders. Oh come on! Vincent van Gogh it's a fascinating guy with a chaotic brain, who might have had some mental illness. Yikes! Why do you think he thought the way he did? I don't know. What would you have thought of him if you lived back then? I don't know. What you have bought one of his paintings? No. Anyway, I tried. I loved the movie when I watched it previously. I was intending on taking a nap but was answering a IAHE call and was on the phone with my counselor instead, so I'm really tired.

I had hot flashes this morning and a bit of achiness, so I checked my temp. No temp. No significant cough. Vertigo still there. I finally gave into the Dramimine again. I took my Aleeve and later Ibuprofen for my cramps. No I'm not getting tested for Covid-19 yet. It's just a head cold. I get it every year. And I have too much to do to be quarantined. Perhaps after the concert on Thursday evening. For now, I keep moving forward. I read my Bible study. Abishai was asking me to do his homework first thing this morning so he could move on with his day. He seems to have already picked up on sounding out a couple of letters together. He knows more and more of the sounds without the pictures every day. So, I don't have to work long with him to know he's somehow picking it up. Trusting the process is hard, but I must.  I'm just tired and want more quiet time. Nearly impossible to have, I know. 

One thing I suggested when talking with my counselor is that maybe Jared and I both are realizing the potential Benaiah and Ava have and how we screwed up over the last 20 years. Everything from date night to being financially responsible and having initiative. I wrote done some concerns and thoughts to talk about on our trip. I know we won't get ot all of them, but I want to reflect on where we've been and where we'd want to go, even if he doesn't like vision casting. I need vision casting. I don't do well with this "just life happen" nonsense, so perhaps we can come up with some idea of the future without having it all fleshed out like I really like it. We've got to work on us. Too many people our age have gotten this far and then fallen apart. We can't let that happen. We won't let that happen. We have to be proactive about it, whether he likes it or not. So, I'll hold his hand and pull him along. And he'll be ok with it. Maybe.

It's been a long day of pain and not feeling well and impatience with kids. At least we had a nice beef stew for dinner. I had totally forgotten Jared wanted to be nice and use his gift cards to order dinner in. Whoops! Maybe another night. At least he offered. Now I'm off to start watching the "Hobbit" movie series. I am not looking forward to it because each movie is more than 2 1/2 hrs long. And the actor I'm watching for is a supporting actor. Sigh. 10 1/2 hrs of Hobbit. Let's see how much I can get through. Then I have one more romantic movie of his and I'm up to date. I don't know why I like to do it, but it's kind of interesting to see all of somebody's career like that. I did that with a couple of other actors as well. We'll see what his role in the Hobbit is but I do know he's a bit of comic relief, which is more like his real personality than the dark, brooding characters he plays sometimes. So, we'll see.

Awww, Abishai likes his music that he's had since he was an infant! The music box came from his mobile and singing puppy was originally Benaiah's I think.

Phil Joel from Newsboys talking about how he learned how to work all the gadgets of a homes studio. He's a simple, humble guy and not into all the techie stuff.

Ah, that's better. Is Tuesday now the new Monday? Perhaps. Perhaps I do need to let the kids sleep in on Mondays and cut us some slack. We do typically have Tues-Thurs to do heavier learning. Because I had told the kids they would loose screen time for being late to class, they got up earlier today. So, we were able to get to everything, including piano lessons and history. It still felt rushed, but that's because of Abishai's chaos. We are going to have to either tweak who does screen time when so Abishai doesn't get too much or I just have to give in at this stage and let him have more. He wants to be with us, but he's not quiet. He's very distracting. Perhaps I need to find more ways of engaging with him, or put one kid in charge of him again. Sigh. He did play board games with Justin tonight, so that's good. I just find myself being very frustrated with Abishai and banning him from the room we are in because his playing is too loud. It's something I either have to ignore or do something else with. Justin finds it hard enough to concentrate. Perhaps we should try going over homework in a different room, too. I don't know. As I tell others, I'm always tweaking. 

It was a beautiful day outside and the kids did go outside here and there. Abishai and Keturah walked the block and Justin walked to CVS for snacks, much like Benaiah used to do. He did remember his mask, wallet, and phone. Abishai played in the rain. I did my Bible study sitting in a folding chair in the garage because it was quieter and cooler out there. It helps to keep the garage door partly up so the kids can go in and out easier. I did laundry and tried to listen to my audiobook. Now that I can listen to the audiobook and still play my phone games, it might be a fun thing to do instead of "watching" TV shows. But we'll see. I was thinking of finishing that crosstitch piece as well and listening to the book. I did clean the two ceiling fans, too, but I knocked something loose in the boys' fan so Jared has to fix it. Jared came home early, which was nice. I do get a bit worried when we haven't had much time to say anything to each other because of our back and forth and activities. It's just hard to connect and I worry because some marriages fail at this stage. Almost 20 years together, kids keep us very busy, we are getting older and more tired. We've both changed so much, too. That's why a mini vacation is so helpful. A chance to hit pause, reflect on the past, comment on the now, and dream for the future. Well, I will. Not sure he will. Which isn't a problem if I remember it and don't set my expectations too high, lol. It's worth the money I/we will spend. 

Yup, that's it. It was a better day, but not perfect. Tomorrow hopefully will be similar. I made it through the first Hobbit movie, so I'll try the next one maybe tonight. But now the only thing I'm really watching is that silly actor and what his little lines he says. Good grief! I will never watch these movies the same again! Lol. Oh well.

Only Justin and I eat normal breakfast food at breakfast. Abishai chooses easy to grab snacks. Keturah is random and will eat pre made hamburger patty melt things. Jared skips breakfast. And I think Benaiah does, too. Crazy bunch!

This is why Abishai might have been crazy today. Frozen fruit, chocolate syrup and marshmallows for breakfast.

Yup, you don't move much when you aren't feeling well.

Abisahi zoomed through the kitchen like the Flash and knocked over the top piece of Jared's tea brewer!

I was answering a post on Facebook about handwriting while Abishai was protesting about doing his. He finally did do it because I said he could have screen time afterwards.

I'm trying to be a good girl, but it's hard.

Ah,....cleaned up the fireplace area so Jared has full access to it again. Yeah!

We had a gentle rain come through for about an hour this afternoon. Just enough to water the plants and trees. It sounded wonderful!

Abishai asked if he could go puddle jumping so of course I said yes! Way to go!

He's wearing pj's underneath his coat, lol.

Look, Mom, I used my hands and the rain water to "wash" the bottom of the basketball hoop!

It's too wet and slippery, Mom, so I won't climb up the pole first.

Ok, I'l swing. And he did fine!

Then he tried to hide from the rain under this small tree, lol!

Taking his bike out in the rain just because he can.









I think it felt warmer than that, but I wasn't really outside so it's hard to tell.

This looks fun!

Abishai has a special delivery to make at Grandma's house!

On your mark...

...get set...

....Go! and now I can have some peace and quiet!




Lots of great clouds today and sunshine and blue skies.


Oh hi dog.


I got hot cleaning the ceiling fans so I came outside to cool far. But the dog wanted out and then Abishai wanted to say something, so that was short lived.



Now, Mom, this is the plan....

Finally, someone is playing with Abisahi. Justin won by 6 points.

Today was pretty ordinary. We got going on school just fine. Kids actually pretty much finished by 1:30, so that's a big plus! I just need to remind them and me that some days go longer than others because they are "set up your assignments for the week" days. Abishai said he wanted to get ahead and do 3 lessons so he didn't have to do them the next two days, but when he sat down to them, he barely did one. But, he's already understanding that he has to sound out the letters and blend them, so that's a plus and he's recognizing the letters without the picture cards! It seems like it's so easy and fast with him, yet we are doing very little review. He was chanting "Homer and Hesiod" today, too, from our CC memory work. Another win! But if we could just have him sit still for a few minutes! He seems to be wanting more attention and not playing by himself for as long anymore. It's quite frustrating. Today wasn't too bad though.

I did catch Keturah in a lie though. She was coming in from the garage and I asked her why she was out there because there's not breakfast foods out there. She said, um, I was eating carrots and tomatoes. Well, why didn't you eat the ones in the house fridge? Because I didn't think there were any. And then I looked and nothing had been touched in the garage fridge in the vegetable drawer. I have the extra carrots and tomatoes sitting on top of a large bag of candy in the vegetable drawer and it hadn't moved since I touched it last night. SO, I knew she lied. Justin had bought himself candy at CVS last night and put it in the fridge. I store chocolate in the fridge year round because I don't like trying to unwrap gooey chocolate. But Justin had bought gummy type candy and didn't need do that. So they both were at fault. He left it wide open for her to find and she lied about it. At least she confessed to it faster than she has done before. Sigh.

Both Keturah and Justin did really well on their math and seemed to be doing ok with science and history readings. New homeschoolers seem to always ask, how do you do it all on three different levels? And elearning parents ask or say, "I need my child's teacher to teach. The kids are having to look up everything on their own." And the answer to both questions is that by the time they are in middle school and high school, they should be learning independently at least on some subjects. That's always been my goal: to teach them how to learn so they can learn for themselves. I think I did just mention this on a previous day's entry, so I leave it to that. I don't teach. I guide. I present material and say, "learn it." They read, they study, sometimes we test. We check comprehension. I don't lecture on every subject. I explain and clarify when necessary. They learn through their books. Maybe kids these days don't have any textbooks to learn from since it's all textbooks. I remember in college when it would frustrate me when a professor would just reiterate what was in the textbook. I felt like it was wasted time. But I now know it's because other students didn't do their reading assignments and other students learn better orally. And there many classes that the textbook was just a guide and the professor would go off on a tangent (I loved it!) because they loved their subject or had so much more to add than a silly textbook had. Just don't regurgitate what's in the book. It's redundant. So, our kids can read, pick out information and analyze it a bit. They can make vocab cards, look for main ideas and bold words, and think for themselves. They don't do it perfectly so we go over things. But they know the basic steps and are practicing. Justin's worried about his foreign language credits so he asked what is required to pass the class for credit. Well, I don't care at this point, so whatever you think you need. So, he looked up DuoLingo, which I shared with him before, and he's going to try to learn German on his own. I say go for it. See how far you get. I'll write down that you did it. Right now, we are working on figuring out his brain, so once we are settled on medication dosage and coping skills, then I'll worried about things like foreign language skills or SAT tests. One thing at time.

Anyway, I got my little errands done. Spent too much money. But I got the Christmas shopping started. Then it was time for Bible study. Our loud talking friend came and was loud, but exciting to hear some good things going on in her life. She always contributes in her own way. She just changes the discussion and dynamic of the group and sometimes it's overwhelming but most of the time, it's good to hear her chatter on. But now I'm a little brain dead. My computer is being really slow, despite having enough memory to work on. And tomorrow is the Michael W. Smith concert. I've worked out most of the details, but now have to put together my bag and make sure the van is gassed up. I'm quite nervous because I would like to back in to the parking spot, but I don't know if I can. I'm afraid that it's going to get too cold. I just wish we could have had our normal concert. There's no new date for that one. And Brickworld got postponed again until March 2021. Bummers! At least we have some other fun things coming up in October.

The dermatologist called today and said that yes, we'll start with 2-3 months of steriod injections first, and insurance should cover it. The injections will hopefully flatten it out a bit because it will reduce the inflammation. Then laser to get rid of the redness, and we aren't sure what insurance will cover for that. And yes, plastic surgery is definitely an option, and yes, I would still like to get a consultation and estimate on the bill. I probably won't take it that far right now because I'm worried about my other medical bills and maybe having to have polyp surgery again at some point. So, we'll see. At least the next step is set up on the calendar. And I need to sit down and rearrange appointments that fall on our vacation days. I tried to today but the line was busy and I didn't have time. Oh well. I'm sleepy and I have a Hobbit film to finish. Oh, and when I was out and about today, my inner ears were hurting. I bet I have an ear infection. I'm still going to the doctor yet. I don't have any more signs of  whatever it is that I had.


This kid thinks deeply and accurately. He's also been praying that when he dies, that it's quick. Where is he getting this stuff? Yikes!




Keturah brought out these Addition and Multiplication charts that a friend on PEI gave us (Kerry Dickieson) and Abishai decided to go through the Addition one on his own, saying the right things! One plus one equals two! So if he'll recite them by himself, I'd say go for it! We hung it up in the kitchen so we could show Daddy at dinner time. I'm not going to push it though.

Dog! You're a goof! And he's just as needy as Abishai is, wandering from person to person to find attention.



Doing more practice.




I was picking out dead leaves and then noticed this spider! I'm so glad I didn't ruin it's web or get bit by it! It's just a yellow and black striped garden spider. It's not aggressive, but if it does bite you, it hurts like a hornet sting because it has some venom. Ouch! It's easy to identify especially with those zig zag lines on the web. Abishai asked if the spider had spun letters. Yes, they look like letters! I was confused at first because Abishai has not seen Charlotte's Web and I haven't read it to him yet. And this spider hung out there for hours. We'll see if he's there in the morning. It's 3 or so inches long. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Argiope_aurantia












Radom Facebook throwback picture. Smaller Benaiah, bigger snow pile. Younger doggy, too. 7 years ago.

Ollie's is a warehouse discount type store that gets random stuff. But it's a dangerous place because they have some awesome books and a ton of toys right now! So I got started on Christmas shopping. I didn't buy this one because we already have it, but yeah!

Concert day! First one in a LONG time! I've gotten so used to having 2-3 concerts a year that it feels likes it's been so long! I didn't know that it was such a part of my routine. Therefore, today was all about getting my home work done so I could go play! Setting up the kids earlier in the week, again, paid off. I had very little teaching to do. I'm giving the kids a day off of math tomorrow because they are both ahead of pace. We have Grandpa Bible lessons and then park day. So why am I typing a blog at 2 am. Because I'm not feeling sleepy. I'm not sure if I would sleep. The adrenaline of getting everything done, and then playing hostess to 4 ladies and one gentleman at a place I've never been was a little nerve wracking. But the kids and I made it through our day together just fine. That's pretty much it for the family. Jared used the Cracker Barrel restaurant card to get to food for the kids (his suggestion, and I agreed). So supper was easy. Not sure if chores got done. But that's ok. Everyone was asleep when I got home so I assume everything went fine.



"Once in a blue moon!" So every 2 1/2 to 3 years it sounds like.

Today's table for Abishai, his choice. What a goof.

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Some gear I took to the concert but never used. Binoculars and inrared mtion detector Crazy!

Keturah gave herself a project: clean out the weeds along the back pence. She even dragged the trash can to the back yard, too. Hm....She is looking for a hand shake or whatever



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